First, thank you very much for reading and sharing your perspective. I think I understand what you are saying, but what I would offer is that the only perspective I can write from, can actually experience anything, is my own. Denying or ignoring that the actions of our children impact us is to turn our backs to the opportunity to really look at our perceptions, biases, demons, trauma, really everything. I am not making HER transition about me, I am writing about the transition I am going through as a result of hers. And that is due to my love for her, how important she is in my life. The closer she is to me, the more impactful are her actions. Thank you, again, Tihamer.