Great piece, James. I have struggled with developing healthy relationships with other men (daddy issues). All my coaches and therapists have been female, because it was the only way I could feel comfortable being vulnerable. The work I have done over the last 10 years, including writing here on Medium, has started to change my relationship with my masculinity, and as a result, with other men. I have to celebrate the work I've done, but brother, there is still so much to do. Thank you for continuing to put the message out to our brothers. It is work, but it is worth it.