I don't have much anxiety over death and am not really concerned with a legacy or people remembering me. I'm surrounded by love while I'm alive and that's good enough for me. Death's ok, but I do have concerns about the dying part. May I be granted a quick one. There is a book called "Speaker for the Dead" (Sci fi and the 2nd book in the series) where the character speaks the truth about someone's life, good and bad, rather than just the high points. I'm fascinated with the idea. The point is for the living to find healing and closure from the more rounded, balanced telling of the person's history, to give context to their life. If you ever read it (Ender's Game is the 1st book) I'd love to hear your thoughts.