Jim, I feel like you are becoming quite prolific while I seem to be slowing down in what I'm getting out. This piece took two to three months to write, with every writing session feeling like a marathon therapy session. One of the things that spun out of this was a possible piece on forgiveness vs acceptance, with maybe a little surrender vs letting go thrown in for good measure. The whole holding-others-in-darkness idea I got from Paul Selig. I'm not a big fan of channelers, but there is something that resonates with me about his message. I guess it's up to each of us how we emotionally define the words we use, and determine how and what we hold onto.