We've struggled to keep up with the changes with my daughter's pronouns, as well as with others in her life who are also part of the trans community. I can follow the reasoning behind the changes as the freedom of the new identity unfolds and becomes more real. It makes sense. But, when you are trying so hard to keep up, to show support, and you still make mistakes because you didn't get the latest "memo", it gets a bit frustrating at times. Luckily, she is more gracious about it than others.